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INTJ

What is an INTJ Personality Type
(The Intellectual)?
People with an INTJ personality type tend to be confident, analytical, and ambitious in their behavior. They love to pursue knowledge and tend to be very logically minded. They are independent thinkers focused on solving the world’s problems.

ENFJ

What is an ENFJ Personality Type
(The Advocate)?
People with an ENFJ personality type tend to be warm, genuine, and empathetic in their behavior. They are persuasive and are often using their gifts to help guide people toward a better life. They thrive in groups and love to build connections with others.

Communication

Myers-Briggs INTJ & ENFJ Communication

How can INTJ and ENFJ types communicate effectively with each other?

INTJs and ENFJs are both Intuitive and Judging personalities, meaning they like to consider how everything is connected and prefer to plan ahead. However, INTJs prefer to spend time alone and process situations logically, while ENFJs tend to enjoy others’ company and express their emotions openly. INTJs should listen when ENFJs need to open up, while ENFJs should avoid using overly emotional phrasing or expressions.


Resolving Conflict

Myers-Briggs INTJ & ENFJ Conflict

How can INTJ and ENFJ types resolve conflict?

INTJs are prefer to discuss issues by addressing the facts; ENFJs, however, generally prefer to consider feelings and emotions. INTJs should be conscious of and sensitive to ENFJs’ feelings, while ENFJs should try to express themselves logically and give INTJs space, if needed.  


Building Trust

Myers-Briggs INTJ & ENFJ Trust

How can INTJ and ENFJ types build trust?

INTJs are likely to trust ENFJs who can learn to appreciate and practice logical thinking around INTJs; ENFJs should make an effort to express themselves in a way that makes more sense to INTJs.

ENFJs tend to trust INTJs who take the time to listen and form personal connections; ENFJs will place confidence in INTJs who can also learn to share more openly.

Working Together

Myers-Briggs INTJ & ENFJ Working Together

How can INTJ and ENFJ types work together?

Both INTJs and ENFJs are organized, goal-setting problem-solvers. INTJs tend to also bring objective thinking to a workplace, while ENFJs offer empathy and charisma. When working together, INTJs can help ENFJs learn to weigh the facts of a situation and ENFJs can help INTJs consider the emotional impact of their words and actions.


Dealing with Change

Myers-Briggs INTJ & ENFJ Change

How can INTJ and ENFJ types deal with change?

INTJs and ENFJs are likely to struggle with accepting change, since they tend to be focused on following a set plan. They should work together to find a new path to their personal and professional goals and appreciate the benefits that change can bring.


Managing Stress

INTJ and ENFJ types need to seek to understand what brings stress to the other type and should try to avoid causing it when possible.

Myers-Briggs INTJ & ENFJ Managing Stress

INTJ types are easily stressed by...

  • Attending overcrowded events
  • Interruptions when they are focused on a job
  • Directing their attention to details and specifics
  • Being in emotional situations
Myers-Briggs INTJ & ENFJ Managing Stress

ENFJ types are easily stressed by...

  • Failing to accomplish a set goal
  • Spending too much time by themselves
  • Judgement or criticism from others
  • Idealistic expectations not being met

INTJs should avoid being critical of ENFJs, as it may be taken too personally.

ENFJs should give INTJs plenty of space, especially when they are working.


Encouraging and Motivating

INTJ and ENFJ types can encourage and motivate each other in their personal and professional lives.

Myers-Briggs INTJ & ENFJ Motivations

INTJ types are motivated by...

  • Working independently on projects
  • Finding innovative solutions to problems
  • Thinking and processing on their own
  • Feeling organized and structured
Myers-Briggs INTJ & ENFJ Motivations

ENFJ types are motivated by...

  • Forming personal connections with others
  • Planning and organizing events
  • Feeling loved and valued by friends and family
  • Taking time to attend to their own needs

INTJs can motivate ENFJs by offering verbal affirmation and appreciation.

ENFJs can encourage INTJs by working to express their perspective more logically.


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