Learn about Enneagram types and relationships
People with an Enneagram type One personality tend to be rational, principled, and judicial in their behavior. They usually have a desire for justice and equality. They are motivated by a strong sense of right and wrong.
People with an Enneagram type Three personality tend to be ambitious, adaptable, and enthusiastic in their behavior. They are driven and love to set and accomplish goals. They tend to adjust their roles, actions, and expressions to every setting or people-group in order to best fit each environment.
How can Ones and Threes communicate effectively with each other?
Ones and Threes are both driven, logical, and productive. Ones tend to be idealistic and focused on justice, while Threes are usually practically-minded, seeking success and value.
Ones should direct and clear when addressing Threes.
Threes should avoid being overly critical of Ones by accompanying feedback with encouragement.
How can Ones and Threes resolve conflict?
Ones and Threes should work through issues logically and systematically. Ones should be straightforward with Threes while offering a potential solution to the problem. Threes should share their own perspective and help find a suitable compromise.
How can Ones and Threes build trust?
Ones are likely to trust Threes, especially those who use their hard-working attitude and success to advocate for those less fortunate. Threes should work with Ones to help achieve shared goals.
Threes tend to trust Ones who are respectful, confident, and take the time to affirm Threes’ personal successes. Ones should also keep an open mind around Threes.
How can Ones and Threes work together?
Enneagram Ones tend to be attentive and protective, while Threes are generally pragmatic and charismatic. Ones can help Threes find new solutions to problems, while Threes can help Ones focus on the big picture.
How can Ones and Threes deal with change?
Ones may have a difficult time adjusting to unexpected change They are likely to be upset if the change is not beneficial and will likely advocate for a different solution. Threes may see change as an exciting obstacle to overcome on their way to success. Threes tend to be enthusiastic and driven enough to welcome new situations.
How can Ones and Threes manage stress?
Ones and Threes need to seek to understand what brings stress to the other type and should try to avoid causing it when possible.
Ones are easily stressed by…
Threes are easily stressed by…
Ones and Threes should avoid being overly critical of one another.
How can Ones and Threes encourage and motivate each other?
Ones and Threes can encourage and motivate each other in their personal and professional lives.
Ones are motivated by…
Threes are motivated by…
Ones can help motivate Threes by recognizing and affirming their successes, while Threes can encourage Ones by using their positions of power to create positive change.