Learn about 16-Personality types and relationships

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What is an ISTP Personality Type
(The Detective)?
People with an ISTP personality type tend to be curious, pragmatic, and confident in their behavior. They are unpredictable and spontaneous, but are often quiet, preferring to think and process information internally.


What is an ENFJ Personality Type
(The Advocate)?
People with an ENFJ personality type tend to be warm, genuine, and empathetic in their behavior. They are persuasive and are often using their gifts to help guide people toward a better life. They thrive in groups and love to build connections with others.


Myers-Briggs ISTP & ENFJ Communication

How can ISTP and ENFJ types communicate effectively with each other?

ISTPs and ENFJs are naturally different and should work to understand how to best communicate with one another. ISTPs are generally more reserved, logical thinkers, who prefer to pursue last minute opportunities, while ENFJs tend to be outgoing, empathetic leaders, who enjoy following set plans.

ISTP personalities should utilize small talk and try to build personal connections with ENFJs, while ENFJs should address situations logically around ISTPs.

Resolving Conflict

Myers-Briggs ISTP & ENFJ Conflict

How can ISTP and ENFJ types resolve conflict?

ISTPs should be patient with ENFJs in times of tension, allowing ENFJs to express themselves honestly.

ENFJs should focus carefully on the facts of the situation and avoid overly emotional expressions around ISTPs.

Building Trust

Myers-Briggs ISTP & ENFJ Trust

How can ISTP and ENFJ types build trust?

ISTPs are more likely to be trusting of ENFJs who encourage ISTPs to take personal space to recharge and avoid confining them to a strict schedule.

ENFJs tend to trust ISTPs who work to connect emotionally with others and offer encouragement in times of stress.

Working Together

Myers-Briggs ISTP & ENFJ Working Together

How can ISTP and ENFJ types work together?

ISTP and ENFJ types can actually work really well together because of their differences; processing and expressing themselves differently means they are more likely to come up with different ideas and solutions to problems.

ENFJs can help ISTPs finish projects and consider the feelings of others, while ISTPs can help ENFJs adapt to new situations and express themselves logically.

Dealing with Change

Myers-Briggs ISTP & ENFJ Change

How can ISTP and ENFJ types deal with change?

Due to their Judging trait, ENFJs may have a difficult time adapting to unexpected situations. ISTPs tend to be more naturally flexible in their plans and should try to help ENFJs adjust; encouraging them to create a new plan or routine after the change can be helpful, as it may help ENFJs feel more secure.

Managing Stress

ISTP and ENFJ types need to seek to understand what brings stress to the other type and should try to avoid causing it when possible.

Myers-Briggs ISTP & ENFJ Managing Stress

ISTP types are easily stressed by...

  • Pressure to commit to long-term projects
  • Monotonous or purposeless routine
  • Spending too much time around other people
  • Dealing with interpersonal conflict  
Myers-Briggs ISTP & ENFJ Managing Stress

ENFJ types are easily stressed by...

  • Judgement and criticism from those they value
  • Feeling like they are a burden to society
  • Focusing closely on specific details
  • Facing negativity from the community

ENFJs should avoid pushing ISTPs to abide by a specific schedule or routine, while ISTPs should avoid being overly critical of ENFJs.

Encouraging and Motivating

ISTP and ENFJ types can encourage and motivate each other in their personal and professional lives.

Myers-Briggs ISTP & ENFJ Motivations

ISTP types are motivated by...

  • Taking things apart and figuring out how they work
  • Flexible schedules that allow them to be impulsive
  • Freedom to be independent and alone
  • Exciting new adventures and experiences
Myers-Briggs ISTP & ENFJ Motivations

ENFJ types are motivated by...

  • Organization and planned events
  • Making a difference in the community
  • Feeling loved and valued by those around them
  • Attending to their own personal needs

ENFJs can motivate ISTPs by allowing them space to work independently from others, while ISTPs can encourage ENFJs by sharing appreciation for ENFJs’ contributions to the community.

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