People with an Enneagram type Four personality tend to be creative, sensitive, and expressive in their behavior. They like to be unique and seek to find their own identity. Though they desire relationships, they may seem distant and reserved, especially in group settings.
What is Enneagram Type 8
(The Protector)?
People with an Enneagram type Eight personality tend to be self-confident, powerful, and assertive in their behavior. They love engaging in debates and are skilled at making difficult decisions. They are fiercely independent and hate being reliant on others.
Communication
How can Fours and Eights communicate effectively with each other?
Enneagram Fours are motivated by a desire for uniqueness and personal identity, while Eights are driven by their need to remain in control of their own lives.
Fours should be direct and clear in their communication with Eights.
Eights should avoid overly casual conversation with Fours by discussing topics on a deeper level.
Resolving Conflict
How can Fours and Eights resolve conflict?
Fours and Eights should avoid being overly emotional or passionate when discussing tense issues. Both sides should communicate their perspective calmly while remaining open to the others’ point of view. They should work together to find a working compromise for the situation.
Building Trust
How can Fours and Eights build trust?
Fours generally trust Eights who can be encouraging, supportive and, at times, vulnerable. Eights should work toward sharing their true emotions around Fours.
Eights are likely to trust Fours who can both stand up for their beliefs and recognize when to accept another viewpoint. Fours should communicate openly and honestly with Eights.
