Type D
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Type D and Type S Relationship

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What is the D Personality Type?
People with the D personality type tend to be assertive, intense, and ambitious. They are usually pragmatic, results-oriented executors who work quickly and make decisions with firmness and objectivity. They also may prefer to be in control over a situation, rather than in position to react to others.

S

What is the S Personality Type?
People with the S personality type tend to be calm, patient and respectful in their interactions with others. Rarely angered or excited, they are likely to work to maintain a peaceful and harmonious environment. By respectfully considering the thoughts and feelings of others, they are likely able to respond empathetically in difficult or stressful situations.

Communication

DISC D & S Communication

How can D types and S types communicate effectively with each other?

D-types are generally logical, direct, and clear when addressing others, whileS-types tend to be more personal and polite.

To effectively communicate, D-types should use a calm, warm tone and ask questions, while S-types should try to be more open and honest when addressing concerns or sharing ideas.


Resolving Conflict

DISC D & D Conflict

How can D types and S types resolve conflict?

D-types tend to view conflict as a way to grow and improve and are naturally blunt when communicating their own thoughts. S-types generally dislike conflict, preferring to calmly work through a problem with empathy. D-types should ask S-types questions about their perspective, while consciously maintaining a patient, encouraging tone. S-types should face conflict head-on by clearly communicating their concerns. Both personalities should work together to find a working solution.


Building Trust

DISC D & D Trust

How can D types and S types build trust?

D-types are likely to trust S-types who are not easily offended and can communicate their needs effectively. 

S-types tend to trust D-types who can be personable, patient, and positive when addressing others.

Working Together

DISC D & D Working Together

How can D types and S types work together?

D-types tend to be energetic, action-oriented, and logical. They offer quick-thinking and efficiency to a workplace. They can help S-types make more objective decisions.

S-types are usually friendly, sincere, and dependable. They bring peace and empathetic-reasoning to a work environment. They can help D-types consider how their actions affect others.


Dealing with Change

DISC D & D Change

How can D types and S types deal with change?

D-types tend to be relatively adaptable, due to their quick-thinking and desire to succeed.

S-types, however, tend to prefer stability in their personal environment and may initially be thrown-off by a new situation. They will likely adjust after taking time to understand and appreciate the change.


Managing Stress

D types and S types need to seek to understand what brings stress to the other type and should try to avoid causing it when possible.

DISC D & D Stress

D types are easily stressed by...

  • Responding to situations with empathy or compassion
  • Paying close attention to the needs and concerns of others
  • Playing a smaller supporting role on a team
  • Promoting cooperation between parties
DISC D & D Stress

S types are easily stressed by...

  • Being in the spotlight or the center of attention
  • Frequently working on a tight deadline
  • Critically questioning practices and procedures
  • Using a forceful or direct approach with others

D-types should avoid pushing S-types to work quickly, while S-types should avoid using emotional phrasing around D-types.


Encouraging and Motivating

D types and S types can encourage and motivate each other in their personal and professional lives.

DISC D & D Motivation

D types are motivated by...

  • Taking primary responsibility and leadership over a project
  • Making decisions quickly with limited data
  • Setting up or participating in competitions
  • Seeing tangible, measurable results
DISC D & D Motivation

S types are motivated by...

  • Affirmation or appreciation from their coworkers
  • Thoughtfully responding to questions from others
  • Encouraging teamwork and personal connections
  • Paying attention to the needs and concerns of other people

D-types can motivate S-types by recognizing and appreciating their contributions to the team.

S-types can encourage D-types by allowing them to take charge of important situations.


DISC Assessment

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