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Morning routine ideas

A list of ideas is easy. The hard part is that almost any of them works and almost none of them works for everyone, so the useful thing is not the list but the method for cutting it down to three.

The most reliable morning routine ideas fall into five groups: an anchor you already do without deciding, something physical, something that gets you light or air, one small act of input such as reading or writing, and one decision about the day ahead. Pick at most one from each group, and fewer at first. The ideas that fail are not the bad ideas, they are the good ones stacked six deep into a sequence nobody can run on a morning that starts badly.

Ideas, grouped by what they are for

Grouping matters more than the individual items, because the common failure is picking four ideas that all do the same job. Two kinds of quiet reflection stacked together is one idea twice.

An anchor, to start the sequence without a decision

The kettle, the shower, feeding the dog, the walk from the bedroom to the desk. You are not adding this one. You are naming the thing that already happens and hanging the rest off it.

Something physical, kept small

Five minutes of stretching, a short walk, a flight of stairs, press-ups while the coffee brews. The small version is the point. A full workout is a separate commitment that will eventually eat the routine.

Light or air

Standing outside for two minutes, opening the blinds before anything else, taking the first drink outdoors. Cheap, hard to object to, and one of the few items that survives being done badly.

One small input

Three pages of a book, one page of writing, three lines in a notebook. Choose the length you would do on your worst morning, not your best one.

One decision about the day

Naming the single thing that has to happen today. This is the item with the most leverage and the one most often skipped, because it is the only one that requires thinking.

One thing you stop doing

Usually the phone before the anchor. Removing a step is an idea too, and it is the cheapest one on the list.

How to choose between them

Pick the group you are missing, not the idea you find most appealing. Someone who already walks the dog at seven does not need another movement item, they need the decision about the day.

Then make each item small enough that finishing it is never in question. The common advice is to start small and build. The more accurate version is to start small and mostly stay there, because the routine is a floor rather than a ceiling, and a floor only works if it is low.

How to do it

  1. 1

    Write down what already happens

    Not what you intend. What happened this morning, in order, including the phone. You cannot anchor a routine to a habit you have not identified.

  2. 2

    Pick the anchor

    Choose the first thing on that list you do without deciding. That is the start of the sequence, and you are not changing it.

  3. 3

    Add exactly one thing

    One item, from a group you are currently missing, placed immediately after the anchor. Not three. One, for a week.

  4. 4

    Define the bad-morning version

    Write the two-minute version now, while the routine still sounds appealing. If the full thing is a walk, the short version is standing outside with the coffee. The point is that a bad morning shortens the routine instead of ending it.

  5. 5

    Run it for a week before judging it

    The first few days of anything feel good and tell you nothing. The week is the unit. Count the mornings it ran, including the short version, and treat four out of seven as working.

  6. 6

    Add the second item, or cut the first

    If it ran most mornings, add one more thing from a different group. If it did not, the item was too big or in the wrong place. Shrink it before replacing it, because the usual fault is size rather than choice.

Common questions

What people ask about morning routine ideas.

What are good morning routine ideas to start with?

Start with an anchor you already have, then add one small thing: two minutes outside, five minutes of movement, three lines in a notebook, or naming the one thing that has to happen today. One item for a week, then another. Starting with six at once is the most common way a routine ends.

How many things should be in a morning routine?

Two or three to begin with, and five is already a lot. Each item is another place the sequence can break, and a routine that breaks halfway tends not to resume. Depth comes from doing a short routine for months, not from length.

What should I do first thing in the morning?

Something that does not require a decision. The value of a first action is that it starts the sequence, so the kettle or the blinds or the shower is a better first step than anything you have to be in the mood for. Save the one thinking item, such as naming the day's priority, for after the anchor has run.

Are morning routine ideas different for night owls?

The ideas are the same, the placement is not. If you run late, keep the morning mechanical and move anything that needs judgement to later in the day. A routine for a night owl is there to carry you through a weak hour, not to extract good work from it.

Drew D’Agostino

About the author

Drew D’Agostino, founder of Crystal.

Drew founded Crystal, the AI coach that understands you, used by millions of people to understand themselves and the people around them. He is the author of Predicting Personality, a book on reading other people through personality science to improve communication and business relationships.

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