INTJs and INFPs are both introverted, intuitive types, who prefer to spend time alone and think creatively. However, INTJs favor logical thinking and organization, while INFPs favor emotional thinking and adaptability.
When communicating with INFPs, INTJs should be conscious of how they say things, making a necessary effort to avoid being harsh. INFPs should try to avoid taking things too personally from INTJs, focusing instead on effectively communicating their point of view.
INFPs should avoid overly emotional expressions when addressing conflict with INTJs. INFPs need to address the situation in a logical way to communicate productively with INTJs.
INTJs should invite INFPs to share; while it may be difficult, they should be considerate and accepting of INFPs’ emotions. INTJs need to avoid being overly critical of INFPs.
As creative thinkers and gifted problem-solvers, the two personalities can smoothly work together toward compromise.
INTJs are likely to trust INFPs who can invite the opinions of INTJs and listen intently while supporting their ideas.
INFPs are likely to trust INTJs who work to avoid being overly critical of INFPs’ emotions and ideas.
Being introverted types, it’s likely to take a bit of time for INTJs and INFPs to trust each other, but with conscious effort, the two can form a tight bond.
INTJs prefer to work independently; they are self-motivated and determined. INFPs, on the other hand, enjoy making connections with others. Though they also enjoy time to themselves, INFPs are conscientious and open-minded.
INTJs tend to be a bit harsh; INFPs can help them learn to be more aware of others’ feelings.
INFPs struggle with taking things too personally; INTJs should be patient but can teach INFPs to have thicker skin and accept that others may not always agree with them.
INFPs’ ability to consider others’ emotions and INTJs ability to stay focused on a goal can help the two personalities form a well-rounded team.
INTJs may have a difficult time processing change. They are goal-oriented people; if a change doesn’t help them achieve their goal, it will usually be viewed negatively by INTJs. INFPs, on the other hand, are flexible and tend to invite change into their lives. INFPs can help INTJs understand the benefit of change, even when it seems to be a hindrance.
INTJ and INFP types need to seek to understand what brings stress to the other type and should try to avoid causing it when possible.
INTJs should avoid being too critical of INFPs; instead, they should work to be encouraging and supportive.
INFPs should avoid being emotional around INTJs; they should instead focus on giving space to INTJs.
INTJ and INFP types can encourage and motivate each other in their personal and professional lives.
INTJs can motivate INFPs by expressing appreciation for their emotional understanding.
INFPs can encourage INTJs by recognizing the goals they have accomplished.