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INFJ

What is an INFJ Personality Type
(The Advisor)?
People with an INFJ personality type tend to be determined, reserved, and altruistic in their behavior. They are idealists and are passionate about making the world a better place. They enjoy close relationships with a few people, but usually prefer working alone.

ISFJ

What is an ISFJ Personality Type
(The Guardian)?
People with an ISFJ personality type tend to be humble, hard-working, and enthusiastic in their behavior. They often focus on making sure a job is done perfectly and like to follow a specific approach. Though they are quiet, ISFJs are social and enjoy being around small groups of familiar people.

Communication

Myers-Briggs INFJ & ISFJ Communication

How can INFJ and ISFJ types communicate effectively with each other?

Both INFJs and ISFJs are Introverted, Feeling, Judging personalities, meaning they are generally reserved, emotional processors who like to set and follow plans. INFJs are also creative problem-solvers and ISFJs are skilled in paying close attention to detail.

INFJs should address one situation at a time with ISFJs, while ISFJs should avoid focusing too closely on specifics around INFJs.


Resolving Conflict

Myers-Briggs INFJ & ISFJ Conflict

How can INFJ and ISFJ types resolve conflict?

In times of stress, INFJs and ISFJs should each address how they feel while remaining calm and empathetic toward the other. To avoid stress, both INFJs and ISFJs should work to fix the situation in a timely manner; INFJs should avoid expressing themselves using hypotheticals, while ISFJs should avoid getting too stuck in the small details of the situation.


Building Trust

Myers-Briggs INFJ & ISFJ Trust

How can INFJ and ISFJ types build trust?

INFJs are more likely to trust ISFJs who appreciate and encourage their creative ideas, while ISFJs tend to trust INFJs who can focus their attention on the present.

Working Together

Myers-Briggs INFJ & ISFJ Working Together

How can INFJ and ISFJ types work together?

Both INFJs and ISFJs bring empathy and goal-oriented planning to a work environment; however, INFJs also offer innovative solutions, while ISFJs offer attention to detail. INFJs can help ISFJs find creative ways to fix a problem, while ISFJs can help INFJs avoid getting caught up in idealistic scenarios.


Dealing with Change

Myers-Briggs INFJ & ISFJ Change

How can INFJ and ISFJ types deal with change?

Due to their Judging trait, ISFJs and INFJs may have a difficult time adapting to a new situation, as they typically focus on following set plans. Both personalities should focus on creating a new schedule or plan and appreciating the positive aspects of change.


Managing Stress

INFJ and ISFJ types need to seek to understand what brings stress to the other type and should try to avoid causing it when possible.

Myers-Briggs INFJ & ISFJ Managing Stress

INFJ types are easily stressed by...

  • Large social gatherings and new people
  • Tasks that require focusing on details
  • Disappointment or personal failure
  • Criticism from people they care about
Myers-Briggs INFJ & ISFJ Managing Stress

ISFJ types are easily stressed by...

  • Harsh or repeated criticism
  • Considering conceptual or hypothetical ideas
  • Living in chaos and disorder
  • Failure from themselves or others

INFJs should try to be more grounded and practical around ISFJs, while ISFJs should avoid pushing INFJs to focus their attention on details.


Encouraging and Motivating

INFJ and ISFJ types can encourage and motivate each other in their personal and professional lives.

Myers-Briggs INFJ & ISFJ Motivations

INFJ types are motivated by...

  • Taking private time for themselves
  • Solving complex problems with creative thinking
  • Connecting to others on a deeper level
  • Following a set routine each day
Myers-Briggs INFJ & ISFJ Motivations

ISFJ types are motivated by...

  • Structure and organization from a work environment
  • Newfound personal connections
  • Time alone to regroup and recharge
  • Finding practical solutions to a problem

INFJs can motivate ISFJs by building personal connections, while ISFJs can encourage INFJs by affirming their creative and positive contributions.


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