INFJ and ESFP Relationship

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INFJ

What is an INFJ Personality Type
(The Advisor)?
People with an INFJ personality type tend to be determined, reserved, and altruistic in their behavior. They are idealists and are passionate about making the world a better place. They enjoy close relationships with a few people, but usually prefer working alone.

ESFP

What is an ESFP Personality Type
(The Entertainer)?
People with an ESFP personality type tend to be friendly, opportunistic, and supportive in their behavior. They usually go with the flow of things. They love parties and are often the center of attention.
Communication
Myers-Briggs INFJ & ESFP Communication

How can INFJ and ESFP types communicate effectively with each other?

INFJs and ESFPs are both Feeling personalities, meaning they tend to process situations emotionally. However, INFJs are generally more reserved, organized, and focused on the bigger picture, while ESFPs are outgoing, spontaneous, and detail-oriented. INFJs should address specific, concrete information around ESFPs and appreciate their attention to detail; ESFPs, on the other hand, should listen closely to INFJs and allow them space by communicating via email when necessary.


Resolving Conflict
Myers-Briggs INFJ & ESFP Conflict

How can INFJ and ESFP types resolve conflict?

INFJs and ESFPs are both Feeling personalities and should each focus on expressing how a situation affects them emotionally. To avoid stressful discussions, INFJs should openly offer their perspective and remain open-minded, while ESFPs should listen closely and offer INFJs space to process.


Building Trust
Myers-Briggs INFJ & ESFP Trust

How can INFJ and ESFP types build trust?

INFJs tend to trust ESFPs who follow through on set commitments and are motivated to achieve certain goals.

ESFPs are more likely to trust INFJs who engage in discussion and allow ESFPs freedom to follow a loose schedule.

Working Together
Myers-Briggs INFJ & ESFP Working Together

How can INFJ and ESFP types work together?

Both INFJs and ESFPs bring compassion to a workplace; however, INFJs also offer creative solutions and organization, while ESFPs offer attention to detail and adaptability. INFJs can help ESFPs set and achieve personal goals, while ESFPs can help INFJs learn to adapt to unexpected situations.


Dealing with Change
Myers-Briggs INFJ & ESFP Change

How can INFJ and ESFP types deal with change?

Due to their Perceiving trait, ESFPs tend to welcome change. INFJs, however, may have a difficult time processing new situations, since they prefer to follow set plans. ESFPs should help INFJs focus on the positive aspects of change.


Managing Stress

INFJ and ESFP types need to seek to understand what brings stress to the other type and should try to avoid causing it when possible.

Myers-Briggs INFJ & ESFP Managing Stress

INFJ types are easily stressed by...

  • Facing conflict with others
  • Large groups of strangers
  • Disappointment or personal failure
  • Criticism from friends and family
Myers-Briggs INFJ & ESFP Managing Stress

ESFP types are easily stressed by...

  • Pointless routines or tasks
  • Uneventful points in their social lives
  • Disapproval or rejection from others
  • Overly analytical or fact-based jobs

INFJs should avoid pushing ESFPs to commit to long-term situations, while ESFPs should follow through on personal plans with INFJs.


Encouraging and Motivating

INFJ and ESFP types can encourage and motivate each other in their personal and professional lives.

Myers-Briggs INFJ & ESFP Motivations

INFJ types are motivated by...

  • Feeling heard by others
  • Taking private time for themselves
  • Finding new and creative solutions
  • Following a set routine each day
Myers-Briggs INFJ & ESFP Motivations

ESFP types are motivated by...

  • Building connections with others
  • Concerts, parties, and other large groups of people
  • Beautiful spaces and art pieces
  • Entertaining those around them

INFJs can motivate ESFPs by spending one-on-one time with them, while ESFPs can inspire INFJs by recognizing and affirming their contributions to the community.


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