Type 1 and Type 2 Relationship

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What is Enneagram Type 1
(The Idealist)?
People with an Enneagram type One personality tend to be rational, principled, and judicial in their behavior. They usually have a desire for justice and equality. They are motivated by a strong sense of right and wrong.

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What is Enneagram Type 2
(The Caregiver)?
People with an Enneagram type Two personality tend to be generous, altruistic, and empathetic in their behavior. They are hardworking and motivated people with a drive to connect with the world. They love attending to other people and feeling helpful.

Communication

Enneagram Type 1 & Type 2 Communication

How can Ones and Twos communicate effectively with each other?

Ones and Twos are helpful, dutiful personalities. Ones tend to be idealistic, seeking justice as a whole, while Twos are usually attentive, nurturing, and focused on helping people individually.

Ones should engage Twos in casual conversation by asking them about themselves.

Twos should be encouraging and attentive to Ones.


Resolving Conflict

Enneagram Type 1 & Type 2 Conflict

How can Ones and Twos resolve conflict?

Ones and Twos should directly address personal issues together. Ones should communicate their perspective clearly while avoiding overt criticism or harsh language. Twos should acknowledge their role in the matter while sharing their own point-of-view. Both personalities should work to find a suitable compromise in the matter.


Building Trust

Enneagram Type 1 & Type 2 Trust

How can Ones and Twos build trust?

Ones are likely to trust Twos when they are consistently encouraging and can directly address personal issues. Twos should support Ones in their endeavors.

Twos tend to trust Ones who are attentive and appreciative. Ones should remember to intentionally set aside time to spend with Twos.

Working Together

Enneagram Type 1 & Type 2 Working Together

How can Ones and Twos work together?

Enneagram Ones tend to be logical and visionary, while Twos are generally warm and caring. Ones can help Twos take time for themselves, while Twos can help Ones learn to take a step back and relax.


Dealing with Change

Enneagram Type 1 & Type 2 Change

How can Ones and Twos deal with change?

Ones are likely to be upset by change that is out of their control. If the situation is not beneficial, Ones will likely vocalize their thoughts. Twos may also dislike change, as they tend to enjoy consistency and security.


Managing Stress

Ones and Twos need to seek to understand what brings stress to the other type and should try to avoid causing it when possible.

Enneagram Type 1 & Type 2 Stress

Ones are easily stressed by...

  • Being perceived as rigid or inflexible
  • Receiving criticism from those they admire
  • Feeling as though they can’t make a difference
  • Overwhelming reminders of corruption in the world
Enneagram Type 1 & Type 2 Stress

Twos are easily stressed by...

  • Disregarding their own personal needs
  • Facing criticism or neglect from others
  • Feeling overwhelmed by everyone else’s needs
  • Rejection from job opportunities

Ones should help Twos remember to care for themselves.

Twos should recognize and affirm Ones’ positive contributions.


Encouraging and Motivating

Ones and Twos can encourage and motivate each other in their personal and professional lives.

Enneagram Type 1 & Type 2 Encouragement

Ones are motivated by...

  • Fighting for issues of social justice
  • Volunteering and helping those less fortunate
  • Finding the right solutions to problems
  • Pursuing their own personal growth
Enneagram Type 1 & Type 2 Encouragement

Twos are motivated by...

  • Remembering to attend to their own needs
  • Being helpful and accomplishing goals
  • Meeting and befriending new people
  • Serving others who are in need

Ones can help motivate Twos by showing gratitude for their help.

Twos can inspire Ones by supporting and encouraging their goals.


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